
1967 movie Cool Hand Luke.
“What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.” Said with deep southern drawl.
Being the movie lover I am this particular film is on my list of favorites. Paul Newman plays the lead of a young free spirited man full of bravado and rebellion who finds himself incarcerated on a Florida prison farm in the early 1960s.

The opening quote of this post is a familiar one for those who are fans of this movie. Failure to communicate is painful in this film and is also painful in our lives. Ever notice how much trouble a failure to communicate can cause? In relationships at work, at home at school and anywhere else our lives take us.
“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 English Standard Version
We each need to learn to communicate clearly and regularly. We cannot be apathetic, lazy or fearful about it without inviting trouble to cross our path. We have to listen, learn and speak clearly to avoid pain.
For example I’ve noticed lately the FAILURE to communicate on the roads. More and more people are not using their turn signals at stop signs, red lights or when switching lanes. The turn signal is a device to communicate your intentions to others on the road for safety. Why would we not use it?

In the work place communication is key to being a profitable company. Each employee must keep coworkers informed so time is not wasted on two people doing the same work because no one spoke up. Or a lone maverick employee trying to do a job without consulting seasoned coworkers can cause costly mistakes.
Failure to communicate can easily happen while texting. Keep that in mind if someone is suddenly upset with you or stops communicating. Use another form of communication to see what’s up. A phone call allows both parties to hear and convey tonal inflections to better communicate. Talking in person is the best way to communicate because you are able to see facial expressions as well as hear the tones and words simultaneously.
In sports communication between teammates can be the difference between winning and losing. It is essentially the same principle in life. To be successful in relationships and in life in general it helps to master the art of communication.
Did you ever miss out on something important because of a Failure to Communicate? It can be devastating and yet so easy to guard against. Here are a few tips to start putting into practice if your communication skills are weak.

Do not expect people to read your mind.
Never assume people know what you mean after you’ve told them something, always clarify and confirm so you are both on the same page.
Reaffirm information and/or plans with the other party if significant (more than a few days) time has passed since you last communicated. Adjustments may be necessary.
Ask questions if you are not sure what is being communicated to you.
Above all, do not let fear intimidate you to keep quiet. Speaking your thoughts respectfully and clearly will take you far in any forum. Lean on this truth daily:
“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” II Timothy 1:7 New International Version

Shine On. . .
karan K


















































